Example of Ceremony Options
Select Your Ceremony Options Fill in your choices in the grey boxes. You can select up to 3 readings, songs, prayers or any combination of the three. Type your name as you want it said at your wedding. If there is not a place to choose an option, I have standard text for these sections. Feel free to edit once you get your advanced draft.
Groom: Tom
Bride: Betty
Welcome & Opening: 4
Question of intent
Give away bride: 
Yes or 
No
Give away groom: Yes or No (typically a Jewish tradition)
Reading/ Song/ Prayer: 1 Corinthians
Declaration of consent (I dos)
Reading/ Song/ Prayer: NA
Vows: 1
Flowers to parents: Yes or No
Reading/ Song/ Prayer: What is marriage
Rings: 1
Unity Candle/ Sand Ceremony Yes or No
If you are using candles: blow the tapers out or leave them lit
Closing remarks: 3
Presentation of husband & wife
Additional notes or questions: Do we need to bring our own candle holders for the unity candle?
Example of Timeline
Timeline for Tom & Betty Get Married
Years of marriage
Milestones
2006
Move into Tom’s apartment
2007 Betty finishes grad school 2008 Buy a house 2009-2010 Start a family 2017 Finish family planning 2020 Tom starts his own electrician company 2027-2039 Send the kids to college 2042 Betty Retires 2046 Tom Retires